Hell Hath No Fury Like a Punked Nine-Year-Old at a Slumber Party

laverne and shirley and squiggy and lenny
Sure you can join our cool little blog hop. But be cool, okay? Squiggy, stop ogling Laverne’s Freshly Pressed badge. Geez.

A really fun idea was recently hatched by two of my favorite bloggers, Emily of The Waiting and Ashley of Zebra Garden. They are kind of like the Laverne and Shirley of my blog world, making me kind of like the Squiggy who always comes late to the blogging party. Or maybe I’m Lenny. Anyway…Emily and Ashley have started their own version of “Throwback Thursday” called “Remember the Time: A Blog Hop.” Each week they designate a topic about which bloggers can reminisce, and then we all link up over on their pages. Since I freakishly remember practically everything that happened to me while growing up, I naturally wanted to take part in this every now and again. And with this week’s topic being SLEEPOVERS, well, I was hella ready to remember the time…

1980's crayon sleeping bag
Only kind of cool

I had my very first slumber party when I was nine years old, to celebrate my birthday. A gaggle of pre-teens invaded my house. We all secretly sized up each other’s sleeping bags as we unrolled them on the floor of my family room. Mine looked like a box of Crayola crayons, and that somehow didn’t seem as cool as the Smurf or Rainbow Brite sleeping bags. But at least I wasn’t the kid with the plain navy blue one. Her parents obviously didn’t love her very much.

We took part in all the typical slumber party entertainment.

We ordered a pizza and when the doorbell rang, we ALL ran to the door squealing, “Is the pizza guy hot? I wanna see if he’s hot!” Then the door opened at it was a woman, and we all laughed hysterically. Because that’s what is funny when you’re nine. You expect a hot pizza guy and you get a woman. It was a scenario practically plucked from an episode of ThFacts of Life.”

audrey 2
photo from imbd.com

I remember specifically wanting to rent scary movies, and I was totally embarrassed when my mom popped in a VHS of “The Birds.” Helloooooo, mother? This is a black and white movie. Nothing is scary in black and white. And are they serious about having a woman attacked by a seagull? Seagulls aren’t even scary. At least they could have used a crow. Crows are vicious. They wait for you to put your trash bags on the curb and then shred the bags while you’re not looking, strewing your mom’s monthly feminine products all over the front yard for everyone in your carpool to see. That’s terrifying. But this movie? Gag me with a spoon. Fortunately, my mom also rented “Little Shop of Horrors.” Now we’re talking. Inevitably, a couple girls thought it was too scary and hung out in the kitchen with my mom. The rest of us mocked them for being sissies, then conveniently “had to go to the bathroom” when Audrey 2 ate the dentist. 

80's fashion
She had a nine-year-old stylist as well

And then there was the piece de resistance of the night: The “Miss Weird Contest.” My friends and I all crammed into my bathroom with a palette of every makeup color known to man and a large bottle of hairspray. We each made up our faces in grand 80’s fashion, then told my mom to act as judge, crowing each girl from a list of titles we created before the contest. “Prettiest…” “Most Boring…” “Coolest…” “Hottest…” and so on, with the ultimate title being “Miss Weird.” Do you know what my own mother crowned me as? Scariest. I was totally perturbed. At the very least, my look was, “Most Psychadelic,” but I really thought I had been a shoe-in for the “Miss Weird” title. The fact that being called “Miss Weird” was coveted  probably says something about my state of mind at the time. What was worse, my mom named the girl I thought was “Most Boring” as the “Prettiest.” Um, the girl hardly put any makeup on! She looked like a natural, dewey-faced nine-year-old. Snoozeville. The nerve.

magic ink
The bane of the slumber party

Considering how seriously I took the outcome of the “Miss Weird Contest,” it probably would have been in the best interest of everyone had someone decided to put the brakes on the ill-fated plot that occurred next. Some little jokester (probably the one with the ALF sleeping bag that said, “No problem!”) had successfully smuggled in some contraband to my party: disappearing ink. She enlisted the help of a few other girls and decided it would be just hilarious to squirt the stuff all over the birthday girl. What they didn’t know was that I was apparently a very late bloomer in the sense of humor department. As soon as they swiftly and deftly squirted a whole heap of ink on the front of my jammies, I immediately stopped shoveling popcorn into my mouth and flipped out.

It started with the frozen, open-mouthed glare. Then it moved on to the What did you just do? squeal of disbelief. Which morphed into the full on atomic tantrum of, “THESE ARE BRAND NEW PAJAMAS! I AM GOING TO KILL YOU GUYS! WHY ARE YOU LAUGHING? YOU RUINED MY BRAND NEW PAJAMAS!”

A few girls stood near me, completely horrified, though it was not clear whether it was at the act of pajama defamation or at my Nellie Oleson-level outburst. The others giggled uncontrollably and confessed, “Gotcha!!!! It’s DISAPPEARING ink!” Oh. Like that was supposed to make it okay. Well, I’d show them. It was my party, and I was going to cry if I wanted to.

“That’s not funny guys! These are brand new pajamas! If this doesn’t come out, I’m totally gonna be mad!”

“Um, it’s DISAPPEARING ink. It’s supposed to come out. That’s the whole point.”

“I’m just saying. You don’t know. What if it doesn’t? If you ruin these pajamas,…they are BRAND new! Guys, it’s totally NOT coming out! It’s still there. I can’t believe you ruined my pajamas! It wasn’t funny!”

I stormed off, mourning the potential demise of a pair of what were apparently the most valuable pajamas in all of the Midwest, with two minions in tow, who likely only took my side because they were afraid they would otherwise be cut off from the cookie cake.

one earring trendI had been punked, and I couldn’t handle it. There is nothing worse than someone who can’t take an innocent joke. And in case you were wondering, my brand new pajamas made it out unscathed. The dollar store disappearing ink did actually make good on its  promise and disappeared. Unfortunately, my scorched pride didn’t…at least not until I started opening presents and got my first pair of dangling earrings for my newly pierced ears. I couldn’t wait to wear one of them. Not both. Just one. Because that’s how Madonna did it.

Ironically enough, my daughter is having her first sleepover with a friend at our house this weekend. I will be doing a mandatory bag search, and I will have a backup pair of pajamas on hand. Because God certainly remembered that little dramatic meltdown I had over nothing oh, so many years ago. And I can attest that He is a vengeful God, for my little girl can NOT take a joke with the best of them.

Hopefully we at least get a hot pizza guy this time.remember the time blog hop

24 thoughts on “Hell Hath No Fury Like a Punked Nine-Year-Old at a Slumber Party

  1. Oh my, I was the girl with the plain navy blue sleeping bag! Seriously. And I see your attachment to pajamas goes way back! I’d say that NOW you have the most valuable pair of PJs in all the Midwest!


    1. Oh my gosh. I didn’t even think of that! But yes, my monkey pj’s are super valuable. I will strike down anyone who squirts ink on them, disappearing or otherwise!


  2. Ha! HA! I still have my crayola sleeping bag at my mom’s!!! Seriously!
    Love you forever,
    “the Prettiest”


  3. Haha my sleeping bag was quite juvenile. It started off a military green and was a hand me down from my dad (it was a proper down filled one) and then my mum covered it with a bright fabric that has rockets and stuff on it. For some reason it didn’t embarrass me and I took it everywhere for years. Embarrassingly still do. I think I must have been brainwashed.
    It’s funny how when we’re young tweens we are so sensitive. I remember a defining moment in my teens when I realised I could laugh at myself and laugh with others about myself. Gosh, it was liberating 🙂


  4. Sounds to me that you had a great childhood. We were so poor that we didn’t even own a sleeping bag. I had sisters that would have stormed the place if someone sprayed me with invisible ink. I think the lesson here is friends come and go sisters don’t.


    1. I did have a great childhood (so someone should have slapped me hard whenever I didn’t realize it at the time). I don’t quite remember what my sister was doing at the moment of InkGate, but my money is on that she was somewhere in there laughing at me. Luckily, we’re still close 🙂 But you sound like you have awesome sisters! Maybe they can come to my daughter’s sleepover this weekend…just in case.


      1. All you need is one of them. I’ll send Linda, she is very used to sticking up for me when I get tricked off at something. Once one of my sisters tried to take communion at Linda’s church and they wouldn’t let her so Linda just broke the wafer in half and gave it to Lori. Take that pious person.


  5. Ok, so many thoughts. Where to begin? One, let’s update Laverne and Shirley analogy to a friends analogy so we can all pretend to be Phoebe, Rachel, and Monica. K? K. Two, OMG BEST POST EVAR! You knocked it out of the park with this one! Three, black and white movies were like so totally lame. I mean, like, the only reason they were like ever created was so Mystery Science Theater could riff on them. Four, “I stormed off, mourning the potential demise of a pair of what were apparently the most valuable pajamas in all of the Midwest” = snort laughing (AKA the best kind of laughing.)


    1. Oooo. I do like the Friends motif. But who gets to be whom? And I already bought some Brylcreem to start slicking my hair back like Squiggy. Hopefully I kept the receipt.

      OH MY GOD…I forgot about Mystery Science Theater. Now I want to waste my afternoon having a YouTube marathon of it.

      And I am incredibly honored and humbled that my pajamas and I elicited a snort laugh. Highest praise possible. Thank you.


    1. Thanks! I agree that now as an adult, I’m a big fan of the crayon sleeping bag. Much more creative than your typical character sleeping bag. It is totally the kind of thing I would buy for my kids now, and they would hate it just like I did because they can’t quite appreciate individuality yet. Actually, my son has a solid colored sleeping bag, so I guess I’m “that mom” now 🙂


      1. I know. But it actually wasn’t on purpose. He did have a Buzz Lightyear sleeping bag but we had to pitch it because I think it was infested or something. He would get this terrible rash whenever he slept in it. And we just haven’t gotten him a new one…he’s been using mine. So I guess I’m not THAT bad….just a little.


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